To get through each day, having the love of God in our lives is so important. It’s not an extra blessing we add on when things go well, it’s the strength that holds us when things do not. Every day brings its own weight — health concerns, worries about family, the quiet moments when the house is still, and the memories of those who are no longer with us. In those moments, human encouragement can only go so far. The love of God is the deeper assurance that we’re  not forgotten, not alone, and not left to carry it all ourselves. 

But what is the love of God? It’s not like human love, which often depends on performance or feeling. The Scriptures call it agape — a love that gives without demanding, that remains without wavering. It’s not earned by our goodness and it’s not lost by our failures. While we often measure love by what we receive, God’s love is measured by what He’s already given: grace when we expected judgment, mercy when we expected distance, and nearness when we felt unworthy. It’s described in 1 John simply as what God is — “God is love.”  This is His nature, not just His action.

That love shows itself in three ways we can feel each day. First, it’s  sustaining. Like the Psalmist says, His mercies are new every morning, not leftovers from yesterday. Second, it’s personal. It’s not a general goodwill toward the world, but a love that knows your name, your struggles, and your prayers before you speak them. Third, it’s enduring. Paul wrote that neither hardship nor heartache, neither the present nor the future, can separate us from the love of God. 

Human love can grow tired or distracted. God’s love never will.

To live in that love is to let it change how we face the day. We don’t have to strive to be worthy of it; we respond to it. We receive it in quiet trust, in prayer, in gratitude for small graces, and we reflect it by showing that same patient, forgiving love to others. When we begin the day remembering we are already loved — fully, steadily, eternally — fear loses its grip. The day may still be difficult, but it’s no longer empty. It’s lived inside a love that was there before the morning began and will remain long after it ends.

“And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.” – 1 John 4:16

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