Today the most basic expressions of love for the United States are treated as provocative and triggering. For generations, the U.S. flag in the front yard, standing for the national anthem, or celebrating the Fourth of July were shared civic habits that belonged to everyone. Now an American citizen who does those things can openly expect to be threatened, scolded, corrected, or labeled as a fanatic making a political statement, as if patriotism itself has become impolite or suspect.

That shift was built over decades in our cultural institutions. In schools and universities, the American story stopped being taught as a remarkable, if imperfect, experiment in liberty and started being taught primarily as a story of oppression to be ashamed of. When young people are taught that the flag represents historical guilt rather than the ideals we have struggled to live up to, and that the anthem is a symbol of exclusion rather than unity, it’s not surprising that they grow up to flinch at those symbols. Patriotism was reframed from a common bond into a form of willful ignorance.

That academic reframing was then amplified by media and political incentives. There is a constant market for outrage, and it is easy to gain status by finding a problem with a patriotic display and casting yourself as more enlightened than the people celebrating it. Politicians and activists learned that they could energize a base by portraying traditional American pride as code for something darker. So the flag, the anthem, and Independence Day were recast not as invitations to all Americans to belong to something bigger than themselves, but as triggers that supposedly reveal intolerance in those who display them.

The result is a culture of self-censorship that hurts the country. When ordinary citizens feel they have to apologize for feeling grateful to live here, or worry that putting out a flag will bring a lecture from a neighbor, we lose the very thing that holds a diverse nation together. A country cannot sustain itself if its people are not allowed to love it out loud.

“America was not built on fear. America was built on courage, on imagination and an unbeatable determination to do the job at hand.” — Harry S. Truman

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